Why a man is having affair?
In the boring evening, I am alone, at home doing nothing but only watching TV show. My friend were busy. While browsing my iphone, I thought maybe I could find some chatting app to chat with people, that will be cool to spend my boring weekend at home.
Responses were very good, I talked to numerous men. They average age is about 21 - 29 mostly and some from 30-40. Married and single were chatting here. Some are the purpose to chat and most of them the purpose for sex.
A married man told me, he willing to pay for good sex. He was very honest and storied me about why he was seeking for sex. The reason was he too high driven on sex and the wife can't satisfy his sex part. Of cause, I believe the wife doesn't know about it. Maybe even if she aware but usually as a wife, a woman, what kind of action that we will take? There are many reasons for those who are not high demand in sex. Either for man or woman, hormone is one of the reason. Secondly is the stress from work. Thirdly, tiring in daily house chores job.
So the man, although he loves his wife, but he needs. So now the challenge is between love and sex, Passion and needs, mentally and physically. During these period, the desires on which part more the person will take action to do it and just do it without second thought. That's how the affair starts.
So as a wife, or husband knowing that your partner has affair due to your neglect. What will you do? I am sure we will get angry. But, from their point. The desire that so much more that they can't control and did the wrong decision. Before it happened, maybe have a second thought, did you ever realize your partner that beside you, the one that sleep beside you on his/her changes?
How often your sex session compare to before and after married?
How long each session last?
How long that you didn't have a real talk with your love one?
Do you still know what color his/her like?
Do you still know that his/her favourite food, movie...?
When was your last time spend time for 2 of you only?
you been asking and curious to know these before married. Did you stop doing these after married? Because you think you know him well? Actually, knowing him well is good, but do not let these to become your communication obstacle. Talk not only in mouth, body language. Your concern is really important, we human are selfish, we always want to get attention from people, especially our loved one.
Please open your golden mouth, a compliment a day, make everyone happy... you are so beautiful.. I'm glad to have you... to appreciate your love one by saying because word has the power... who don't like listen to nice word? we felt happy right? so, don't be stingy, you don't have to pay single cent to compliment...
and if you think that you are bit cool to having sex. Find the solution, do not give the excuses of lazy, tired, no choices.. unless you are prepared to accept your love one having affair. Otherwise, please think about it.
Some of the solutions, exercise which can increase our metabolism, increase our blood circulation and also relieve our stress. Having regular exercise will really help you to improve on sex. If you love your loved one, please take some action.
Some love game, there are several game for lover, can consider of role play, wearing uniform or sexy lingeries to help to increase the fun when having sex.
Ambience, if you feel that home is stressful, cause kids are busy around. Phone ringing, housework that tiring you.. take a short vacation maybe 2D 1N trip to some where near. Leave your kids to your parents, let them help you to take care of them and so you can have a couple day with the love one and having a good and quality sex.
Prevention is better than cure, this is applied to married too, isn't it?
Although we know, married is not all about sex. However, this physically needs still concerning. If the man do need you sex, please think carefully, maybe he turns to gay or maybe he is going to be monk or worst maybe he has someone.
So?
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